That said, I was reading this post the other day from unretouched photo where she was talking about how her husband had been a pastor for 10 years at this church, and she didn't really have any friends there. How sad. How inspired the VT program is so that (with a little effort) we can all have friends who come to visit us, in our homes. So that, after 10 years, we have friends at church. Friends we can call on, friends we can visit, and friends we can share with.